The exchanging of gifts at Christmas brings with it the
awkwardness of what to do with an unwanted gift. Do you pretend to like it? Do
you return it or perhaps give it away? We
all get gift giving wrong sometimes – it is hard to choose the right present
and wanting to achieve the element of surprise means you cannot ask the recipient
what they most want.
There are no such excuses when it comes to giving a gift to
a charity.
If you read the research, charities are clear that what they want is
an unrestricted donation so that they can chose how best to spend it and will
most likely spend it on their core costs. It can sometimes be difficult for
them to say this to you directly as they are trying to second guess what you
would be happy with – think of a teenager coming up with gift ideas for Grandma
when what they really want is cash. If
it is important for you to know exactly how your donation will be spent, ask
and the charity should be able to tell you what item, staff role or project is
a current priority for them. Many of them will already have come up with some
packages to help you e.g. £15 or £200 or £2,000 or £10,000 will pay for …
When donors direct how a donation can be used, without
consulting the charity, it can cause difficulty. For example, in one recent
example, people with good intentions donated clothes and shoes to a small
charity supporting refugees. The stretched charity staff and volunteers were
diverted from their usual work to spend time getting rid of unwanted items when
actually what the charity really needed was money to pay volunteer expenses and
the utility bills and extra staff hours to keep their centre open longer to
cope with the rise in demand of refugees seeking help. In other examples I have
seen generous gifts left in a will cause nothing but frustration as they were
so tightly tied to a project that was already fully funded or a piece of work that
was not the most needed.
So to avoid the difficulties associated with unwanted gifts this
year, do the best you can to ensure your donation brings smiles all round. Check
out the charity and their impact. When you are confident they are good, give a donation
with no strings attached. I am sure they will be delighted to tell you how they
spent it.
Emma Beeston Consultancy advises funders
and philanthropists on giving strategies and processes; selecting causes and
charities; assessments and impact monitoring. Services for charities include external
perception reviews; bid reviews; training for fundraisers and non-fundraisers
involved in bids. E: emma@emmabeeston.co.uk; T: emmabeeston01